Barbara, you're a fine woman and that's why you're married, in a way :)
Husband discovered that beautiful soul in you and took you in to your heart, but other than that you simply cannot escape from this forum, as you're the second native on this forum speaking a "natural" language and we all would really benefit from your "knowing" what's good and what is not :)
I hope you hit it by off and against some time to prove others wrong and put on the stand, so that they would see how good you are :)
As for translations.. Well, I'm a quasi-translator, or should I say a would-be translator and I'm doing this kind of job for money, so I know how difficult it sometime it may be to find a good word, which I think would satisfy many, as a appropriate one. Don't worry then.
I would though like to pick your brain sometimes when translating into English and I hope you would give me a hand, if not, whisper sth snappy that would do :)
Welcome to our "verdant - look at the colour :) and sometimes full of nuts and bolts forum :) If I were you, I wouldn't give a toss about what people say, but I know how it's hard sometimes no to respond, but now and again don't take anything personally if you want to get by :) Hang in there!
Cheers!
Merix