Being a parent is difficult challenge. Before decision of take a risk upbringing a child everyone should take into consideration what is better rewarding or panished? As everybody knows parents used both solutions for ages, but it is definitely important to realised pros and cons of these ways in raising up.I'm deeply convinced that punishment should be used only when the kid misbehave and previous reminders didn' work. due to punished without reason the child may feel humiliated, Morover little boy or girl could come to conclusion that parents didn't love them. punishment should be didactic and showed what was wrong in behave. contrary to popular believes rewarding has also good and bad sides. It's worth to showed appreciation from time to time and reward when young man deserve. In the other hand too intense giving gifts could caused the kid stoped be greatefull and happy because of present. For good of children parents should be demanding and used punishment and reward adequate to situatin. In my opinion adults have to combine this two elements of upbringing that's why it is necessery .