What about emigration?

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Stress is abnormal :-P
I, for one don’t have much experience in the matter of emigration. However, I’d like to tell you about my friend who left our beautiful country a month ago. Her destination was UK. She had decided to go there to work as an au-pair just after passing the examination for the secondary-school certificate (she postponed taking up studies). The departure had been considered thoroughly (she shouldn’t have counted on sheer luck after all). All bureaucracy was settled down by employment agency.
What inclined my her to leave home? Basically, she wanted to try something challenging in her life. Moreover she was anxious much more to become independent, to polish the language, to find out how it is to live in the foreign country than to earn a lot of money. As far as I know the weekly payment is about L50.
To tell you the truth, my friend had had to wait approx. 2 months before a suitable family was found (they had to secure accommodation, food and some English course for her) . Though being offered to work & live in London she choose the seaside because of the peacefulness and quietness of such place.

In my opinion as for practicing language, I’m sure that after a year she will have learnt colloquial speech and lots of expressions being used in everyday life. Therefore I told her to take some grammar reference books with her. I hope that she won’t have any problems to begin for instance philological studies at the university here in Poland as soon as she returns (but it’s not that simple considering both the level of entry examinations and the number of candidates). I will keep my fingers crossed for her. I believe she remembered those words I told her before getting on the train.
- “ Whenever you are, whatever you do, do it intelligently”.
Gdańsk is a beautiful city , especially the oldest part of it- I was there once on a school trip and was simply flabberghasted! But these prices...Perhaps in New Zealand are things more expensive than in Gdańsk.I live in Wrocław by the way.Have you ever been there?
Are you in touch with her?I\'ve heard a lot about these au pair projects and some of them are simply rubbish.When you live with a nice family it\'s ok, but sometimes you have to change your place of work at least twice!That was the fate of my friend who went to France some time ago to polish her French...the first family was unfair, they didn\'t want to pay her and treated her like a skivvy or something in this kind.
Is Poland a normal country?The country of law and order?I\'m stressed like most of my conpatriots:/because I\'m forced to live in abnormal conditions.
What i meant was stress is abnormla as every sickness... We should avoid it as long as possible but well... So right now there is not a single person in more civilized areas who doesn\'t know what stress is... Sad indeed that we have to experience this thing...
Prices in Gdansk... As everywhere you pay more in so called touristic areas co in Gdansk it is Old City... Few small streets further the prices are dropping... Eh, Nz is much more expensive than Gdansk :-) But the wages are better - so relatively you can have the same standard. But as i mentioned before i am in very good position - my wages and my hubby\'s are very good...
Wroclaw? Of course i have been there!!!! How couldn\'t I? Long time ago but have been there :-P Very nice city...
maciek
damn. i\'m doing my best, but i still don\'t know what i\'ll do in future. Tell me: I want to go to US and study there, but after that i dont want to leave - i hope i\'ll find work there and stay for long long time. Is there any possibility that my dream will come true one day? Can i find my own, new way of life? Have my own house and family there? There, far far away from here? If language and cash isnt a problem - so what? I heard that in imigration offices goverments want to make sure that students after studing in colleges will back to their own countries. But i want stay there! i want to have double passport... is this possible. tell me...

--You will never walk alone--
Why is it that so many people want do go abroad? I can imagine that it`s for example because of the work or a bad outlook for the future. However, don`t you think that if someone was able to find a good job in the USA wouldn`t he/she find a similiar job in Poland. If every young, well-educated people go abroad there won`t be anybody to change our country. You can think that I am quite naive but I don`t think so. I don`t want to be the President of Republic of Poland or all kind staff like that. I would like to start a company that would employ people who want to change they life for a better one. If I could affect only few friends helping them to have a better life I would be satisfied. Wouldn`t you be either? I understand that sometimes it`s better to go abroad to \"fulfill their American Dream\", especially, if he/she has no money or any chance for a dignity life. Yet, I don`t approve people saying \"it`s an abnormal country or the USA is the best place to live\", especially if they don`t care about money, because their parents will pay for everything. My father went to the USA in the 70s but he had to work a lot and because of that he has know what he has. I don`t want to accuse anybody for going abroad but only to point out that if we don`t make a little effort to change this sometime (or always) abnormal counrty everything will be the same in 20 or 30 years.
>Why is it that so many people want do go abroad?

Maybe because they finally can? There is no restrictions, we can go anywhere we please?
:o)
I see your point of view. but my soul wants to travel... wants to taste a little bit of this great world. Do u know what i mean. For example - I decided to study in US. After that i can back or stay. Chosing one of those can be perfect \"life school\" for young man like me, i\'m not right?
Next time perhaps we could arrange a meeting or something?:)
I would also like to try how it really is to live abroad.I\'\'ve never stated that I wouldn\'t come back.But with the changing Poland...I\'m not sure if it is possible.
Are you sincere with yourself?I don\'t think of changing Poland but of returning after a long period of being abroad.
When I will be having my holiday (of course in Poland) then i will let you know :-) It will not happen so, unfortunetally... Unless i will find quicj way to get lots of money... Legally of course :-) But right now, yhm yhm. Just paid first bill for my hubby\'s dentist... Only 1976 $ more to go...
Hahaha, back in your country after long living abroad? Hahaha, good luck... I am only 3 years out of there and i know it would be very difficult to live in Poland again even if i came back right now.... When you are living abroad you are starting new life... Probably in most cases also family... My bro was a few times in USA - each time approx 4 months and right now he stilll cannot make up his mind where to live finally... If you are going there only as a tourist then there is possibility (slight) that you will be back...But if you want to make a home there (even for some specified period) it will not be easy to start your life again in old country...
But i wish all the best - maybe it will be different for you...
Kasiul
Br if you are interested in au pair program in England i can give you a contact to my cousin who is there for the second time - maybe she could give you some info about it...
Cheerio :-)
Unfortunately my friend working as an au-pair doesn\'t have an access to the Internet so I don\'t know if she\'s going on well... But I told her to write to me a few words by snail-mail so I\'m waiting for a message from her, hoping that she\'s all right in good hands.
Ok I will wait ....by the way Iwouldn\'t have enough time - my work is getting worse and I must do something.Anything.
This is the thing I fear the most-that I wouldn\'t be able to settle down in the UK OR ELSEWHERE and in the same time I wouldn\'t be able to live in Poland anymore- suspended in between!
Sure, why not.But to tell you the truth...children aren\'t my scene...I\'m the youngest child and I\'m a little spoiled:( The only girl in family of three boys...
This post was of course meant for Kasiul.I hope, Fuki , THAT your friend is ok.
What\'s your job, br by the way?
Please don\'t laugh at me...I \'m an English teacher...I wish I took care of dogs.
how about cat-sitting?
Maybe forget about au pair job - unless it is dog au pair :-) My gg is 473[tel]then i will give you my cousin\'s email :-) Cheerio
That\'s the risk :-) Nobody said it would be easy :-)
Eh my hubby just came from work and said: Honey i invited soem of our friends. They will be here in 1 hour.... I fell pretty like Dracula right now - give me blood!!!!! Someone\'s blood!!!!! So you see i am busy as well :-P
feel - dammit - spelling, Kasiul, spelling...
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